Three things stand out about the way I grew up. First, there was always a lot of family joy. Though we were not privileged with wealth, we were rich in love and support. My memories revolve around family time. We could make anything a party. It didn’t matter what we had, as long as we were together. We might have been eating tuna fish sandwiches, but it felt like a feast because we were laughing and enjoying one another. From an early age, I learned that joy is not about an a